Some of us need a bad influence

I had a thing for bad boys ever since kindergarten.  I think they represented a kind of freedom I longed for in my hyper-controlled, good-girl world. My name was Sparkman, so the bad boy in my class called me, “Sparkplug.” I didn’t know what a sparkplug was, but I knew I wanted him. There was another boy just like him in fourth grade who stuck his tongue out a lot and wanted to be just like Gene Simmons when he grew up. And on and on through high school and college.

By the time I met my man, I had dated plenty of bad boys, who introduced me to adventures and trials, drama and trauma.  I spun out of control and lost my mind for a time.  When I came back to my senses, he was there, and he was a little bit bad, but not any more so than I had already become.  And now we’re having discussions about Shakespeare and how his stories relate, not only to real life, but our life.

Me: Which Shakespeare character do you relate to most?
Him: The guy from Henry IV .
Me:  Falstaff?
Him: No, the prince.
Me: You mean you’re not the bad influence, luring people into the dark side?
Him: Nope, I’m just a dude who likes to party.

But it’s more than that.  Prince Hal escaped from his father’s rule to go hang out with his friends. He got really wasted for a long time until he finally came back to his senses and put himself to the task of becoming king.

And now, we rule.

(forgive me, that was lame)

4 Responses to “Some of us need a bad influence”

  1. Kevin C Says:

    It’s funny , the journey’s that our lives take. You can call it fate if you wish, but sometimes I think we are all just wandering until we bump into something or someone we like….something that fits us. We meet many people.Some stay in our lives and some just for a while. Then there are the ones that make us chuckle when we think of them through the years and through the miles. Those quirky ones, ….just the right kind of quirky……a lot of them become writers I hear.
    Take care
    Kevin C

  2. Ann Says:

    Glad to see you here, Mr. Ociffer. Keepin’ a little love in your heart.

  3. Shari Says:

    I thought of you just the other day in this regard because Shannon has a serious crush on Bart Simpson.

  4. Ann Says:

    Hmmm. Very interesting. At least he’s a step up from Sponge-Bob.

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